My core life principle that I am an autonomous being and not subject to anyone except my Creator, my parents and my children in life-advocating for justice has created a lot of problems for myself. It has been misconstrued as selfish, insensitive or inconsiderate. My strong characters have also invite views that I am steadfast, independent and capable of handling pressure or hardship on my own. People that has been romantically involved with me feels that I don’t need much of attention or concern because “I can take care of myself”. They did not realize how I appreciate the small things they did for me and even crave for more.